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Are diamonds really a girl's best friend?
After the AA meeting I went to on Sunday, a young woman (I think she is 29) came up to me to talk about a resentment she developed over...
Patricia Kochel
Sep 9, 20242 min read
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Dear Diary
I have a cartoon on my bulletin board above my computer. It shows a man writing in his diary presumably and he is writing "Dear diary,...
Patricia Kochel
Sep 1, 20243 min read
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The Mind is the Matter
Michael Singer said something like your mind is like a big bully. He explained that our minds tell us we aren't good enough or that we...
Patricia Kochel
Aug 16, 20243 min read
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Are You an Eeyore?
I used to be an Eeyore. Not quite so bad, but enough so it felt uncomfortable. At the meeting last weekend, the leader said this:...
Patricia Kochel
Aug 7, 20242 min read
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We Are All Enough
I had coffee today with a beautiful young woman who was new to the women's group I attend. She has been coming for several months. She...
Patricia Kochel
Jul 30, 20242 min read
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Our Pathetic Mind
A member of AA said at a meeting recently, "Get your pathetic mind off your pathetic self and be of service to someone." I wrote it down...
Patricia Kochel
Jul 26, 20243 min read
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Those Monsters
John (not his real name) said at an AA meeting recently "When I picked up my first beer at age 15, I was no longer stuck with me." ...
Patricia Kochel
Jul 19, 20243 min read
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Why Carry Rocks?
My AA sponsor told me that when we give up drinking, most of us just change our seats on the Titanic. We change from one addiction to...
Patricia Kochel
Jul 10, 20243 min read
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Who's to Blame?
I heard a woman share a few days ago about an incident that shadowed her through most of her life until she began working the twelve...
Patricia Kochel
Jul 4, 20242 min read
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Overcoming Fear
The topic of today's 7 AM meeting was fear. It was a big meeting and a lot of people wanted to share because all of us there can relate...
Patricia Kochel
Jun 11, 20244 min read
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It Works if You Work It
So, I am now ready to tell you about some of the miracles that occur when a person works the twelve steps. I like the word "work"...
Patricia Kochel
May 28, 20244 min read
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A Fantasy World
This is my sixth blog. I haven't written for a few weeks because of family commitments. But I am home now, safe and grateful for all...
Patricia Kochel
May 19, 20244 min read
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Negative Thoughts Can Pop Up In Anyone's Mind
My fifth blog. I asked my husband to read this one and correct grammar and/or spelling (Despite my having been an English teacher, his...
Patricia Kochel
Apr 28, 20244 min read
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It's Not Our Drinking. It's Our Thinking
After attending the 7AM meeting of alcoholics anonymous for about one year, a long-time member told us that he was offering a workshop on...
Patricia Kochel
Apr 18, 20243 min read
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A different kind of sobriety
Emotional sobriety. What was that? I was hearing a lot about spirituality in AA and now emotional sobriety? I figured it meant more...
Patricia Kochel
Apr 7, 20244 min read
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Finding Home
I ended my first blog stating that I took my sister's suggestion and attended a different group. A group for men and women. I found a...
Patricia Kochel
Mar 25, 20244 min read
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The beginning
This is my first blog. Wow. I'll begin with my journey of recovery from alcoholism. Years and years ago, while driving my friend...
Patricia Kochel
Mar 19, 20245 min read
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